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Oct 27, 2026
Oct 26, 2026
First B'day
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| On the terrace of my paternal grandparents house at Chellappa mudhali street, Purasaiwakkam, Madras |
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| With Roseline athai, my paternal aunt |
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| With Mary Appaye - my paternal grandma |
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| with Ravi mama, my maternal uncle |
Few photos of my 1st birthday ( year 1976) celebrated at my grandparents' house in Madras.
Photos restored with AI help.
Wishes from Nithila
Happiest Birthday To Appa !!!
Tonight, I wish upon the stars,
To make this distance melt away
So that I could be by your side
On your very special day.
Tonight, I wish upon the stars,
To send love, laughter and peace your way.
May every worry fade away,
And may joy be yours each passing day.
Tonight, I wish upon the stars,
To double the love you've given me,
Be returned to you in all you do,
For no one deserves the world, but you.
To the best dad that ever will be,
I am so grateful for the wisdom you've bestowed on me.
And I'm sure, the stars will also agree,
You're the greatest blessing I have ever received.
Oct 25, 2026
Oct 22, 2026
Baked memories
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| The animal buiscuits |
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| Paper wrapped sponge cake |
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| Surul cone |
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| Photo courtesy themaduraifoodie |
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| Mani's bakery |
Another bakery that stays nostalgic is the Mani’s Bakery at the Arapalayam Cross Road junction. Remarkably, it has survived from the 1960s to the present day, outlasting many of the neighbourhood establishments that once defined the neighborhood. Their puffs were famous too, and having one was almost a ritual whenever we visited one of my grandfather, Raja thatha’s house, at Arapalayam. Some flavours become inseparable from the people and places associated with them, and Mani’s puffs are firmly rooted in those family memories.
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| Ark bakery - at the American college shopping complex that was demolished this year |
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| Raja barley - a brand that has managed to survive a 100 years! |
And then there was Raja Barley at Nethaji road, which, in my opinion, made the best breads and buns in those days. Their bread had a distinctive flavour—something I have not encountered in any other bakery since. I cannot quite explain what made it so special. Perhaps it was the recipe, the ingredients, the baking process, or simply the magic that memory adds to the food of our childhood.
Their rusks were excellent too, as were their chooseberry biscuits. Even now, when I think of the breads and buns of those days, Raja Barley immediately comes to mind. It set a benchmark that, at least in my memory, remains unbeaten.
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| A branch of Raja barley at the American college shopping complex that was demolished this year.. |

































